You can apply the same rule, and if someone is very persistent, clearly say ‘no thanks. If the guy shakes his head, stop all touching and don’t try again. If you are comfortable and sure you have been given ‘the look’: do not hesitate to signal the interest of yours in a similar manner. Therefore do not be offended in case a guy contacts your butt or arm or perhaps even your cock. But since your not talking, you are going to have to get used to communicating by other means.
The lights are off, and all you can see are the outlines of other guys. Dark Rooms – Anything goes in this kinky zone.Otherwise known as the ‘dry areas,’ no action is allowed in these spaces in most establishments – but follow the lead of everyone else if you’re unsure. Some have bars serving alcoholic drinks, others have dance floors with DJs or even live shows. Relaxation Lounge – Many locals head to their closest gay sauna for more than just the cruisy atmosphere.